Me and Oh have been together about 16 months. Both have children. He doesn't live with me but spends most of his child free time at mine. Gets on great with my kids and his child fits in well.
The issue is, every other weekend when he has his child he excludes me and will go off and do his own thing then expect to come round Sunday night once he's dropped DC off to their mum.
I know he needs time with his child but he expects to be part of my life and be included in what I do but doesn't offer me the same.
I've spoken to him about it many times and he promises he'll change but never does. His reasons are he has to drive around a lot to entertain his child and he knows I don't like driving miles around the county.
I'm just fed up with being excluded. Surely if its a relationship it should be equal and include sharing stuff?
I'm fed up with making a fuss about it because he clearly doesn't see that its an issue and doesn't understand why it upsets me.
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AIBU to want him to share stuff??
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Bear2902 · 23/04/2018 11:57
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