I’m in a right mess. In March, DH and I made the heart-breaking decision to end a pregnancy at 19 weeks after tests revealed our baby had a chromosomal abnormality which would have given her basically zero quality of life. When we found out, we also found out it was caused by chromosomal abnormality I have (I am a carrier and therefore this doesn’t affect me health-wise).
We’ve been talking about the future and we are being referred for PGD IVF, which could potentially eliminate this happening again (providing it is successful, obviously). However, DH is keen to try for a baby naturally. There is around a 50% of conceiving a baby with the same abnormality. We have no living children and so desperately want to have a family. Our daughter took 18 months to conceive.
AIBU for contemplating trying for a baby naturally knowing the same thing could happen? What would you do in this situation?
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123whatsmyusername · 22/04/2018 18:33
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