The awful mil has over stepped the mark. She has accused me of being money orientated unlike her and her family .
Then the other day on one of her dreaded visits she said something to me which I find is unforgivable.she knows I’m so worried about my elderly parents my mum is blind my dad over the last year dementia has been rapid.
I mentioned to mil the family had been discussing getting them a live in carer to which mil said I should move in and look after them ,then said because them paying a live in carer will use up my inheritance.i was fuming how dare she .yet she says she’s not money orientated.
I told her my parents have saved for their old age and it’s their money and I don’t care about money and it’s there for their care.
She never even apologised. I just find her really cold and calculating.
And if she isn’t money orientated why does she lie on her holiday camp booking forms ,I mean putting some of the adults down as children ,couples down as single parents etc just so they all don’t have to pay so much u see most of the family go every year to this holiday camp.oh and if other family members visit they sneak them in. The whole family are not short of money so why commit fraud if they not money orientated.
I just blocked her on my social media site after she was sending messages giving her unwanted opinion on another matter,I blocked her after telling her exactly what I think of her .so she can’t send a reply lol.
But thing is I don’t want her in my house anymore dp can’t see what she said wrong to me so am I over reacting . I was already upset at my dads rapid deterioration and worried about my mum who is blind and she comes out with that .
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