Ok, so don’t have much money at moment and have to spend wisely. Have a nice friend who does have more disposable income, ie, already has 5 mini breaks to look forward to. Anyway asked me several weeks ago to join her and her partner on an evening out, tickets approx £80 plus train tickets so all in about £100.
Rang me again today to ask again if I would like to go, I agreed. She then said she would book tickets which she did and I transferred money straight into her bank account. All good so far!
Now 12 hrs later I pick up a message saying saying sorry ‘we can’t go, forgot about another commitment’.
So I have payed out for tickets to go to something which I wouldn’t have done ( there’s only so many times I can say no to invitations out with her without sounding like a misery ). Of course I don’t expect her to pay for our tickets but it is a niche outing specific to her tastes and i’m cross at the casual text . No apology just ‘oh , we can’t go now, maybe you can find someone to take our place’. Am I being unreasonable to feel annoyed because I could have spent the money on something less frivolous.
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Aaah. Frustrated by friend
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Longdriveahead · 21/04/2018 03:58
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