I have been with my husband for 16 years - married for 9 and had a baby last year. He's always been a bad snorer. And I mean REALLY bad. He's kept a whole housefly lid people awake before. It's always been an issue, but since we've had our son it's even worse and I'm beginning to resent him and it worries me as I love him so much and don't want this to tear us apart, but it is really grinding me down. I used to feel knackered from lack of sleep, but now I am utterly exhausted. My husband actually keeps me up more than the baby. He then gets up at 6 and wakes me up as he gets ready for work. I used to be able to doze a bit, but as he wakes the baby too, I'm up then as well.
He is really apologetic, but I don't think he really understands what it is like to be kept awake night after night when you are SO tired.
I need to function during the day. I run my own business and have a baby to look after. I need to be on form.
I have strong earplugs and he has a custom made gum guard which helps, but I'm still woken up.I also spend most nights in the spare room, but I don't think that's good for our relationship either.
Anyone else in the same (noisy) boat?
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My husband snores so badly that I'm starting to resent him
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Tailfeather · 20/04/2018 22:37
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