Walking down the street today and bump into a member of staff at a restaurant we go to semi-regularly. She stops and rubs my belly and then says "how's baby? Can I touch?" WHILST touching my bump. Is this fine!?! I haven't experienced this before but I felt a little...violated? (can't think of a better word) I feel like this is unreasonable and I was too shocked/didn't want to be rude so I just mumbled a response and walked off - what do people do in this scenario?
Completely unreasonable of her! I've had the same thing from relative strangers but also feel really uncomfortable when people I know better do it. Haven't mastered how to handle it yet as it's always well intentioned but people just don't think how weird it is for the woman attached to the bump!