Okay, so I'm not really looking for advice more of a rant. The back story is as follows, my current living situation is thus, I have a roommate, we literally share a bedroom the size of a stamp, it's super tiny. Initially this wasn't an issue, however we've both started dating recently.
My DP is one of our neighbours so we can hang out a lot pretty easily and if we want some alone time we can organise it around our respective roommates schedules with relative ease. However we never sleep at each other's houses, mainly because we're both pretty tall so sleeping two people one 5"7 and one 6"1 in a single bed just isn't going to work.
However, my roommates DP is technically homeless (although living on his friends sofa- I know complete catch). So if they want to hang out they always come to our place and end up kicking me out of our room- even if all they want to do is watch a film, they then end up falling asleep and I just feel uncomfortable going to bed in there.
I have tried being assertive about the situation and my roommate gets it, however her DP now just thinks I hate him, I don't- I just really need my sleep.
It's just really getting on my nerves that she gets to sleep in her bed all the time and I end up on our uncomfortable sofa at least twice a week.
Oh and he also brings his dog over which either stays downstairs and annoys me or gets to be closer to my bed than me.
Essentially I'm just fed up and needed a rant
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notactuallyamum1 · 16/04/2018 07:13
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