Aibu to think Mumsnet has issues with black women

[Ghanagirl]

Just that really, I’ve read really horrible comments about Meghan Markle, Alexandra Burke, Serena Williams talented and hardworking individuals who seem to offend some Mumsnetters simply by being beautiful and successful.
I’m not surprised as happens in RL but I guess it’s disappointing as Mumsnet touts itself as a more educated network than netmums

[BigSandyBalls2015]

Yabu. Happens with plenty of other women who aren't black, Kate Middleton for example?!

[FourFriedChickensDryWhiteToast]

is Meghan Markle black? Cant say as i have noticed tbh.
Anyway 'Mumset' isnt a hive mind . Does being black mean that nobody should anything negative about you?

[Nicknacky]

Eh? I’ve seen plenty of critical comments about white women, Theresa May, Kerry Katona, Katy price are the names that spring to mimed.

But does it suit you to ignore that?

[TERFragetteCity]

Mumsnet has a problem with women end of.

[Ghanagirl]

Okay but with black women it seems relentless and personal

[Bejazzled]

🙄 Some people actively search for reasons to be offended don't they?

[Nicknacky]

If you are looking for comments that will support your thinking, then you will find them.

[dinosaursandtea]

I agree. It’s insidious and horrible.

[MeanTangerine]

I haven't conducted a careful study of comments made about famous women and then checked to see if there are a disproportionate amount of negative comments made about black women. However, there is still racism in, well, every society afaik and Mumsnet is an enormous community : it would astonishing if there were no prejudiced people on here at all.

I don't know how much education has to do with it, it's perfectly possible to be educated and racist unfortunately.

[HeadingForSunshine]

Yes of course. Like glancing at a woman and smiling is deemed racist by some black women. Like a work meeting to discuss a cock up is potentially racist. Like a complaint against an HCP who has been rude is racism.

Sick and tired to dancing around because any constructive criticism or even compliment is taken the wrong way.

People come in all colours and sizes. Sick of isms being blamed for everything to be honest.

[Samcro]

yabu and daft
do we have to like someone cos of their colour?
I like MM don't like AB, no feelings about SW
i like people cos of who they are

[Ghanagirl]

Katy Price and Kerry Katona lead tabloid lifestyles, they sell their stories for money so hardly comparable to the talented black women ive mentioned.

[LemonSqueezy0]

I have seen some absolutely terrible comments about Serena Williams, referring to her as an ape, overloud, manly etc. Think it was one or two posters and mumsnet sorted it.

[AnyFucker]

Oh, give over

[RunMummyRun68]

You are being ridiculously unreasonable and looking for offence

[TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross]

Wow - talk about making the text fit your argument

Are you just conveniently editing out all the white women that have been criticised on here? Because quite frankly if you claim never to have read a negative comment about Katie Hopkins, that’s bullshit. Likewise Katie Price, Kate Middleton...In fact, you could make a more convincing case for MN having issues with women called Kate than you could for your claim.

But please, do provide one quotation to support your argument that the women you cite offend some MNetters “simply by being beautiful and successful” and not for any other reason.

[insancerre]

Can't say I've noticed
But you do sound a little like you are looking for things to offend

[Nicknacky]

Regardless of “talent” then the two females I mentioned are fair game? Would you still think that if they were black?

[Ghanagirl]

HeadingForSunshine
Okay not sure what you’re going on about

[QuentinSummers]

YANBU but that's because society as a whole is racist.

I agree with the poster saying mumsnet has a problem with women too. Some people really can't stand women being visible and have to put them in their place. This is magnified for black women.

[lolaflores]

I don't know how you can really say that in all honesty when the population of MN must reflect the population of women in UK and other places. Do you know what the black female presence is on MN?
I don't know how you can make such a generalisation, I honestly don't and i feel a bit insulted by that. Are you sweeping me into that category of racist MNer's even though you don't know the first thing about me and my experience as a white, working class, second generation Irish woman with Mental Health and physical challenges?
Get out of it

[RunMummyRun68]

Think someone is just a bit bored today.... this thread is intentionally goady I feel?

[ShakeVigorously]

Katy Price and Kerry Katona lead tabloid lifestyles, they sell their stories for money so hardly comparable to the talented black women ive mentioned.

Now make that statement with the word white instead of black and read back how it sounds.
I think it's you who has a problem op.

[pictish]

Not something I’ve ever noted on here I have to say. To my mind, mumsnet is indiscriminately bitchy.

[TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross]

Katy Price and Kerry Katona lead tabloid lifestyles, they sell their stories for money so hardly comparable to the talented black women ive mentioned.

Hardly comparable? Here is Alexandra Burke’s interview with Hello magazine - just one of the magazines, newspapers and TV shows she has done interviews with. Do you think she does all those for free? Now you’re just being disingenuous. At least try to make your argument credible.