I’m taking the massive step of changing my full name, getting a new passport/license and updating my name everywhere. I have always hated it (it’s a weird name) - it doesn’t suit me and I feel uncomfortable introducing myself under that name. It just doesn’t feel like ‘me’. I also have a shit, abusive family and want to completely detach myself from them too.
Most of my friends, even acquaintances, know I hate my name. So it won’t be a suprise that I’m changing my first name, but might be once people find out that I’m changing my full name. I almost feel awkward reintroducing myself to people I know? Did anyone else feel like this? I even feel a bit awkward going to work/bank/doctors etc and showing them my deed poll and new name. I just feel anxious that they’ll find it weird but it’s something I need to do.
So I just wanted to see what your experiences of changing you name (forename or surname) were like? Am I over thinking this and it won’t be as weird as in my head? Did people get used to the change? Were there any difficult experiences such as getting references in your old name? Thanks
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