Had a meeting with DS(8)'s teacher this afternoon and turns out he isn't as far behind or as disruptive as we thought he is. But I have come away with much different and worse concerns than I went in with, I felt that we were talking about a completely different child to mine.
First the teacher said his main struggle is reading out loud, that he talks quietly and often stutters and makes mistakes and when he does he gives up and says he doesn't want to do it. I know that DS hates silent reading but at home and at his drama school loves reading out loud and is perfectly capable at it, his drama report says he will read any text that is thrown at him out loud like he has read it 1000 times before and that his voice is always clear and full of confidence, so that didnt make any sense. My main worry was his maths and I went in wanting to discuss how I can help him with this at home but she seemed to think he was doing okay in maths and didn't need extra support, which if true obviously is great but I'm not sure is the case.
Throughout his whole school life and even the beginning of the year with this teacher he was loud, messed around, chatted all the time and wouldn't keep still etc but now apparently he is very quiet and hardly ever disruptive during lessons. Although I think its great he is starting to behave and had told him he needs to try harder to, should I not be concerned about this sudden complete switch in his personality at school? He is still just as loud and chatty out of school and at clubs. And despite starting to be quiet and not being disruptive he is not listening or concentrating which is hindering his progress, I don't understand this if hes being quiet and not distracting anyone but still not listening or concentrating what is he doing?
Also the effort he puts in at school during P.E and drama does not match the effort he puts in out of school and I was surprised that the teacher hadn't picked up on his abilities there. They are doing gymnastics at the moment and his teacher mentioned he doesn't seem to be enjoying it and is making some progress but finding it quite difficult which is really odd as he does 2 hours of gymnastics out of school a week and has done since he was 3, he is very capable of doing all the basic moves and much more advanced ones as well. The teacher wasn't aware that he did gymnastics out of school as apparently he hadn't told her which is not like him at all he normally would love to show of the fact he can do a back flip and has loads of awards.
It was all very confusing.
AIBU to think she just spoke to me about the wrong child? What are the chances of that? And if she was talking about DS does all that not sound incredibly worrying to you? What could be going on?
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upsideup · 23/03/2018 17:33
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