So my DF has his children 50/50 with there mother (4 days one week and 3 the next) she claims the tax credits, child benefit and gets weekly maintenance from him as well (not much). She has now gone and got herself a job after 9 years and has sent us half the childcare costs too! We can’t afford them and I have just had to reduce my children’s childcare (am a shift worker) and get family to help me out.
Aibu to say she can bugger off and we are not paying them? She gets benefits for the child and I am assuming will get help with childcare from tax credits ( she says she may not as New partner earns). Or say split the tax credits and child benefits and then we will pay half and step the maintenance as this will break us as we seriously can’t afford this and she has given us a weeks notice to pay half as she starts in half term!
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Mar1984 · 23/03/2018 14:15
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