My friend has a little boy in reception and they sit on the carpet and have specific carpet spaces. Her little boy can be a handful but he behaves very well in class, he likes to please his teachers. He's very tall also. My friend went into class today and found out once again her little boy had been reseated and no one else. So she had enough, went home and wrote a letter stating her little boy had been moved 5 times and she wanted to know why, the other times it was mainly because the teacher said she wanted to bring the reserved ones nearer to her, or seating so and so next to each other wasn't a good match or that her son was a good listener and she could trust him in different spaces, not to mess around etc etc. The majority of the class has only been moved once, with some twice or some none. Now my friend feels bad she wrote the letter and has taken to bed, she suffers from depression and anxiety so it's brought on serious symptoms now. But she wants to know if she was being unreasonable to say she was tired of her son being moved. For what it's worth she thinks he was moved because he's taller than the child he's in front of now, but they're some extremely short ones at the back and even tall children at the front. His teacher has tried calling a couple times but for both she couldn't get to the phone. Teacher has said they can talk in the afternoon. In a way my friend knows nothing will come of it, as he'll have to stay in his new spot. She likes his teachers very much but feels she's always having to explain to her son why he's moved, when he's done nothing wrong and is sad each time he's moved and takes a while to readjust. No one tells her when he's moved either, she finds out when another kid says her child is in their spot.
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Was my friend unreasonable or was the teacher?
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Clueless1315 · 21/03/2018 22:01
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