DD is discovering Harry Potter, as am I. She is almost 8 and a very good reader. I had always said to her that I'd like to read them together for various reasons. She was reluctant at first and we read the first two separately. By the time we got to the third book I was aware that the subject matter would be getting darker so I insisted on reading it together. She agreed and we've loved it.
So now we've finished number three she's absolutely desperate and determined to read the fourth alone. She says she wasn't in the least bit alarmed or frightened by The Prisoner of Azkaban and that she prefers to read alone.
My reasons for reading together are:
- I get to read it at the same time.
- We really got into the third one together and loved all the suspense etc. Generally a really lovely reading experience that I'd like to repeat.
- We need a story to read together as it's part of our bedtime routine and a non-negotiable.
- There were times in the last book that I needed to clarify things that she didn't realise she didn't understand. It would be a shame for her to invest her time in reading a long book and end up not quite getting all of it.
- I don't know what happens in the story and feel wary of her reading potentially dark subject matter without me going through it with her.
DD's reasons for reading alone:
- She really wants to
I completely get why she wants to go it alone, but really really would so much rather we do it together.
So, AIBU to insist on it being a joint venture or should I back down and just let her get on with it?