Me and my partner decided it would be best for me to move out with our little one 5 weeks ago. We still text a couple of times a day and I've been round there three times. He tells me he wants us to live together again and how much he misses us. Today I took our little boy round to see him and I went up for a wee and to my surprise there was a big lump of black hair in his bath. He's bald so it's definitely not his. I still have feelings for him so I'm probably over reacting but I'm not sure why there would be any hair in his bath if he's on his own.
I know we arent really together kind of just seeing each other etc but AIBU for being upset about it?
OP please ignore the people being obnoxious for the sake of it. Why anyone would want to make snide comments about someone in your situation is beyond me. You are adjusting to living alone with a small child, and assessing whether your relationship with his father has any future, most people would be feeling fragile. Being nasty about your choice of words is just vile and uncalled for!
Why don't you just have a conversation about the hairs in the bath and ask? If you can't communicate your relationship doesn't have a future in any event. Best of luck!
Christ alive,ignore the snobby comments.youve got a lot on your mind Who’s supporting you as a new mum?friends?family?i hope you’re ok I have no idea about the hair in bath,Do yourself a favour and simply ask him Folk on here know what a baby daddy is,they’re simply making a show of pretending not to know