I just snapped this morning. This is a snap shot of the last few days but every day/weekend is pretty much the same.
DP works very sporadic hours but probably amounts to a day & a half a week. His job is v lucrative so he is happy as long he has enough to do what he wants.
I work for myself from home but not a job that requires 24/7 in front of the screen.
Thursday : DP gets up at 12ish. I made us a late breakfast (it’s always cooked). He drives into work for an hour then spent the evening at a end of season sports social. He came home to a roaring fire, said he was still hungry & could I make him supper.
Friday : Again he got up between 12-1. We drove to the supermarket. Returned home. I made a marinade & prepped meat for Saturday dinner. I cooked our dinner.
Saturday: I cooked breakfast, he then drove to pick his DCs up. I cleaned/tidied the house, prepped fire etc. They stopped for lunch on the way back. He watched back to back rugby. I made homemade EVERYTHING for dinner. 1 of his DC didn’t eat anything as she’d gorged on chocolate they’d bought at the garage on the way back (she was meant to share with everyone but didn’t).
I cleaned up. He put a match to the already prepped fire.
Today : I make tea/coffee. He texts his DC from bed & tells them he was going to shower so they needed to get up & help me by laying the table for breakfast. He has now gone to the club & will have drinks/lunch there.
I do all the dishwasher/washing machine/put bins out/cleaning /tea/coffee etc.
He will open a bottle of wine & prep the fire maybe once a week.
I snapped & lost it this morning. He said I need to calm down & he would do stuff eventually. I think he is just fucking lazy.
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Snapped - told DP he’s lazy , he says I’m BU
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AnAfternoonOfWineAndChocolate · 18/03/2018 14:25
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