First time posting. Was in an emotionally and abusive relationship with my husband for 4 years. We then split up. I can't get over him. He comes around every few months and basically uses me for sex goes on to say how amazing he is and how I will never get anyone like him again. I don't know what to do. It's hurting me and I feel that I will never be able to love anyone even though he was so horrible. I have 4 children from a previous relationship and he basically tells me no one would ever want me. I'm fairly attractive and work full time in a skilled healthcare job to support my children. Oldest DD is 14 so they are not babies. AIBU to believe I will never love or be loved again or ever get over this abusive prick. Please go easy on me