Because I asked her if she can avoid nursery for her soon one year old 😐she can!!! But doesn’t want to what is fine !!!I just wanted to talk with her about it
I don’t know how to repair my friendship with my best friend
So we were very close until we talked about how she could go back to work after her maternity leave
I knew, that she is worse off paying nursery for two kids when she goes to work but I also knew that she thinks she SOULD work because she doesn’t Want her life only about kids
So I suggested she could work three days and I her husband three days as he is self-employed and very close to the kids
(One day per week anyway the grandmother looks after the kids)
I suggested that to avoid nursery because I told her I find it early to put a one-year-old in a nursery if not necessary
because I read that cortisol is increased in young babies in nurseries and that the babies have no feeling of time and I may be missing a close person
I would have never ever suggested that if it would be necessary for the baby to be in nursery
She was mega mega offended and even insulted me
I realised very quickly what I have done and apologised really really really a lot lot lot
I really highly regret it like I said something. She knows best about her family and her kids.
I told her I think so highly of her and that she is the best mum and this is why I suggested that her baby could be longer with her and her husband because I think so highly of her and her husband. I said I am so so sorry I even started crying because I realised that this could be the end of our friendship...
But she won’t have it
She Says we are still best friends
But she just doesn’t contact me anymore
I am really really sad and I know she thinks very high of me and she will be very sad / depressed now.
Do you think I can fix that ?
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2Lolli · 13/03/2018 22:17
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