DS1 is in Year 8 and in November he called me on his way home from school to tell me he'd been set upon by a pupil in Year 10. The boy had got him in a headlock and luckily DS's friends had been there to support him and he wasn't hurt but understandably upset by this totally unprovoked attack.
This happened in the morning and school did not call me at all and I was unable to get hold of his Head of Year or anyone else useful after school. School finally contacted me the following morning. I was content with how they handled the matter from there on and with the "offender" but made it clear that I was very upset that communication from school had been so poor.
Yesterday I had a similar call from DS on his way home. He'd been attacked by 2 pupils in his year at lunchtime. He had gone to the office where the attendance officer spoke to him and took a statement but no teacher had seen him and he decided to go back to his afternoon lesson, rather than go to the medical room. (That was a mistake on his part.)
Once again I called school and no one was available. The Head of Year did call me back much later but was unaware of the situation having been teaching all afternoon.
I need some help with perspective here. DS went to a very small and nurturing primary school where nothing like this ever happened. His current school seems nice but obviously with over 800 boys there will always be problems. What I am most concerned about is the school's failure to communicate with me. Am I being unreasonable to expect someone to contact me in these situations to tell me my son has been attacked before I hear it from him? If the Head of Year is unavailable because of teaching then surely someone else should take responsibility for the situation?
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TwigTheWonderKid · 13/03/2018 07:53
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