I have received a wedding invite - well, a save the date, wedding is next year - from a family member. It is addressed to me and my 2 DCs (I am a single parent).
Wedding is UK but involves several hours travel and a full weekend stay at a cost to guests of ÂŁ275 per room. I have no problem paying this as I'm sure it will be lovely. Obviously there will be cost of actual travel, outfits, gift, drinks etc on top. Again, no issue paying.
However the wedding is on a weekend the children are scheduled to be with their dad. I am loath to request a reschedule as things are VERY difficult between us (I have had to involve the police re threatening behaviour and have an appt with DV support service). Additionally the kids don't know this family member too well as they moved away when they were small. They (and I) also won't know anyone else there. I will know the B&G and family members mum. I'm not sure if my sister/BIL/infant DN have been invited but if they go obviously we'll know them.
WIBu to contact B&G to say I'm not able to bring the kids but don't really want to attend alone (and pay ÂŁ275 fir just me) and ask if my DP could come in place of the kids? We don't live together but have been together 18 months, B&G haven't met him as they've not seen me in that time. Given that it would be a reduction in numbers from me and 2 kids to just be and DP, and we would be paying for our room, is this reasonable or am I being a CF?
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Re: wedding invite
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CatsAreHarderThanKids · 09/03/2018 17:43
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