So AIBU...I can't see that I am at all but I'm willing to be told otherwise!
Currently on maternity leave & browsing eBay, came across a bag I've wanted for a long time to replace one I had which was damaged. I would feel guilty buying it outright while I'm off work so I decided I'd sell some of my current bags I like less than it so I could cover the cost of the bag & had timed selling my bags to ensure I had the funds in my PayPal for the day this listing ends (it's fixed price & I can see nobody else is watching it) So essentially, I'd not be paying anything. More trading bags.
I told my DH I was happy because I'd found a bag I'd been looking for & I'd managed to sell my bags to pay for it (& also knew he'd notice it so thought best to tell him I was buying it!) however, his opinion is that despite me having sold my bags specifically to pay for this new bag, I should be putting the money I've made into savings rather than spending it on another bag. I can understand his point of view but I wouldn't have sold my current bags if I wasn't buying a replacement! I still have bags so it's not like I won't have any though. I'll still have 5/6 bags but they're all black. I've sold my light coloured/neutral bags to buy this replacement. Now I feel very guilty and like I shouldn't/can't buy the new bag.
He's said if it was when I was back at work it wouldn't be an issue but while I'm on maternity leave, I shouldn't be buying handbags. I just view this as trading bags!
It's a very minor issue but it's ended up escalating into a disagreement so I'd be grateful of input on if I'm being unreasonable in which case I'll go apologise & not buy the bag in question. I'm probably feeling sorry for myself because I've got the flu so very willing to be told I'm being ridiculous!
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Hellohellobye · 25/02/2018 16:08
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