AIBU ? To explain to the family members , why we didn't send xmas cards this year or to post a status on facebook so most people can see it. Or just not bother at all.
It's just really annoyed me.
My husband has been told that certain members of his family are not happy they didn't receive a Xmas card off us this Christmas just gone.
My husband had an operation the middle of December and it went wrong and he nearly died and was in ICU. He came out ok but recovery was hard and he couldn't work etc. The said family members didn't come to visit him once in the hospital ,one family member works in the hospital and the other lives across the road from the hospital. No one phoned him to see how he was etc they knew what had happened as I told them . When my husband got out of hospital he went round the people who didn't come to see him to show he was out of hospital and on the mend.
Anyways as my husband wasn't working money was a bit tight and we barely managed to have a good Christmas with our children as it was so close to Christmas this all happened and we weren't in the Xmas spirit,so to speak ,but tried to make it good for our children.
I just think that to be petty over a Christmas card when their son nearly died is appalling.
I don't mean to sound harsh but sending Christmas cards out was the last thing on our minds. And most family members understud about our situation so weren't offended.
It wouldn't be a horrible status , just apologising and explaining why we didn't send out Xmas cards last year and that we are hoping for a better year this year, as last year was full of ups and downs.
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Didn't send Christmas cards last year , family members not happy.
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butterfly198615 · 25/02/2018 15:43
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