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Laurenmclovely Sun 25-Feb-18 11:34:06

Basically my mum sent a video to the family WhatsApp of them both in the bath. I just think that it's highly inappropriate for them to still be bathed together! I mean surely there's an age where it just becomes creepy? I wouldn't bathe my 8 month old with a sibling at that age. I might just be over reacting but it's just really creeped me out !

Laurenmclovely Sun 25-Feb-18 11:34:56

Sorry that was meant to say my niece and nephew still bathing together. He is 8 and she is almost 2

Herewegoagainagain Sun 25-Feb-18 11:34:58

Video of who in the bath?

WorriedAndTired Sun 25-Feb-18 11:35:00

Your mum and who in the bath?

PuppyMonkey Sun 25-Feb-18 11:35:21

Both of who?

mickeysminnie Sun 25-Feb-18 11:35:45

You realise none of us know your family?

AmysTiara Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:06

An 8 year old and a 2 year old in the bath together isn't creepy. It's weird you think it is.

PuppyMonkey Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:12

Oh. But it’s just a family WhatsApp it’s not on FB or anything? Don’t see the issue.

TheQueenOfWands Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:31

Bathing together is fine.

Filming it is beyond weird. Sending it around is even weirder. Creepy weirder.

If I also had children I'd be cutting contact.

Pengggwn Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:41

He's 8 and you think it's a problem for him to see his baby sibling naked? Or the other way round?

LuigiBoard Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:41

Not weird or creepy at all. YABVU

FissionChips Sun 25-Feb-18 11:36:54

Do you think the 8 year old would have inappropriate thoughts about his 2 year old sister?

Herewegoagainagain Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:03

Cross post! I know I was bathed with my younger brother- and cousins, depending on who was around at that age - but after that I would definitely have wanted some space and privacy. Depends on the child I think

DeathStare Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:18

Eh? what's weird about it?

MyBrilliantDisguise Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:19

You start to realise what the term 'professionally offended ' means with threads like this.

Laurenmclovely Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:23

I just think that it's inappropriate for them to be sharing a bath when he is 8! I know it was only to family but it's just the fact of the age gap and the fact they're of the opposite sex

nancy75 Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:45

It would be weird if the video was your mum & Dad in the bath together

RebelRogue Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:45

You are weird for thinking an 8 month old and a 8 yo in the bath is weird. Same for a 2 and 8 yo. As long as they're happy and comfortable it's fine.

What's weird is that your mum took a video of it and shared it.

witchofzog Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:53

Creepy? Are you actually serious? It's you who is weird and creepy for thinking anything of this. Yabvu

MiddleClassProblem Sun 25-Feb-18 11:37:53

No, not creepy to me. Not sure what my age limit would be. Two teens would be creepy.

I bath with DD 3. Is that creepy? My mum has seen me naked a fair bit as an adult, is that creepy?

Mummyontherun86 Sun 25-Feb-18 11:38:10

I don’t think it’s inappropriate.

64BooLane Sun 25-Feb-18 11:38:13

Why inappropriate? In what specific way?

KittysMyName Sun 25-Feb-18 11:38:25

I think the fact that you think two siblings bathing together is creepy is much more alarming than the bathing. Why on earth is it creepy?

Nocabbageinmyeye Sun 25-Feb-18 11:39:14

An 8 and 2 year old? You are the weird one, there is nothing in the slightest wrong with that

I thought it was a what's app of your parents bathing together, that would have been weird

Mabelface Sun 25-Feb-18 11:39:26

Why is it inappropriate? They're children having a bath together, playing in the water.

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