My DC mentioned today that when they go swimming with school, they are supervised, they said 'watched', in the single sex changing rooms by a TA of the opposite sex. DC says it makes them feel uncomfortable. They are year 4.
Fairly obviously, I'm talking about a group of boys, being supervised by a female teacher. We both feel that a male member of staff would never be allowed to do this in the girls' changing room. There are no male TAs, so no possible male supervisor. However, again, I feel that if the sexes were the other way around, it would be deemed so unacceptable, as to be sorted in some way. There are male members of pool staff, but nothing to do with the school.
My DS knows about male privilege, and that girls would be more concerned about men in the changing rooms because our society sexualises young women, and we have a problem with male violence. We genuinely have these conversations. So I've explained that this is why it's seen as less of an issue having a woman in the boys' changing rooms. However, he feels that he and the other lads would feel more comfortable with male supervision.
Is my DS BU?
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hunkadunka · 24/02/2018 21:04
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