to wear a dress and heels for a date in my home?

[Sullabylullaby]

It will be the fifth date, he's coming here to cook dinner and whatever else.......

Would you dress down or wear a nice dress and heels?

[TheFifthKey]

I’ve dressed up in this situation - feels nice to get ready properly for a date and has always been appreciated!

[Sullabylullaby]

Ye, I hope it would be appreciated! Now my dilemma is unsightly tights underneath it whenever you know lol.

[onemorecupofcoffeefortheroad]

I'd definitely dress up! You'll feel good and he'll appreciate the effort - he should do anyway.

[Whenwillitgeteasier]

M&S opaque hold ups are practical and sexy.... 😉

[steff13]

I'd wear a dress. It wouldn't occur to me to wear shoes inside the house.

[Sullabylullaby]

Too late to get to an M&S now. Date is tomorrow and nearest one that I know of is an hour on a bus. Plus, they always seem to fall off me as I've skinny legs.
Will have to have a gander for hold ups in the future - assuming a 6th date ensues!

[DannyLaRuesBestFrock]

Nice dress yes, but tottering round my own home in a pair of heels would feel odd.

[pinkyredrose]

Wear the heels! You can always take them off.

[Sullabylullaby]

Well I've worn heels with jeans on another date and he complimented me. It feels odd to me too lol. Teetering about when I'm usually in flip flops haha

[LuxuryTime]

I would and have gotten dressed up and worn heels to cook dinner for my now fiancé in my flat on our fifth date...
Have fun!!!

[Somerville]

Nice dress and heels but no tights knickers also optional

[Ohyesiam]

The only times I ever wear heels is on dates in my bedroom.
So it's a yes from me

[Sullabylullaby]

Now - nude or black heels with a bright red dress?

This is the dress.

www.newlook.com/uk/womens/clothing/dresses/mela-red-textured-stripe-bodycon-dress-/p/565603960

[DalekDalekDalek]

Dress up definitely but wearing heels would be a bit weird unless you usually wear shoes around the house? Plus if you have laminate or wooden floors you may damage them.

[anyoldname76]

i do when me and dh have a date at home, i have wine and music on when im getting ready, like i would for a night out, i think its nice to make an effort, most of the time im either in workwear or pjs

[Somerville]

Thinking about it, it was about my 5th date (with now DH) when I cooked for him at my house. What is it about 5th-dates that makes that the thing?

[Snowysky20009]

Black heels. Nice dress!!!

[Sullabylullaby]

Might go bare legged now that I think of it.

[Sullabylullaby]

Thanks snowsky. Photo doesn't really do it justice. It's not a flimsy fabric as it looks in the pic. Glad heels aren't completely ruled out. Ye, was thinking black shoes too.

[winglesspegasus]

i know things are getting very cold in uk
do you have warm floors/nice dress painted nails and an anklet
who needs shoes

[Cliveybaby]

nice dress! now I want it...

[gttia]

I would dress up and still do when dh and I have date nights in

[bridgetreilly]

Black shoes.

But it's entirely your choice. Your home, your date, you set the atmosphere as casual or formal as you want. I'd be in the flipflops, personally.

[ShimmeringIce]

Really weird to wear heels in your own house (though I’m starting to find heels a bit ridiculous generally). Sexy dress and no shoes would be about right, I reckon.

Disclaimer.. haven’t been on a date in about 15 years, and feeling comfortable would be a high priority!

[cashewmilkshake]

Painted toes, nice feet.