Would you be annoyed at this ?

[Namethecat]

My oh has taken the day off to catch up on jobs. This morning we did a bit of diy, and then we've been in the garden for a couple of hours ( general tidy up, hedge cutting, getting ready for spring )
Anyways I come in make us a cup of tea, take both teas in front room. He comes in with a dinner plate with 2 slices of cake sat on it . He then starts to drink his teas whilst eating his cake holding the plate ( like you do ) not offering me the other piece. So i'm beginning to think maybe they are both his but really thinking ignorant fucker - give me my bit. He finishes his then passes me mine and is amazed that I'm pretty pissed off by now !!

[Namethecat]

For info cake was homemade boozy Xmas cake ! Lol. ( I make a big one to last ages )

[McDougalMcPhee]

so not funny - just annoying

[Theglobe]

‘Pass me that slice of cake or are you going to scoff the lot!’. Or were you just looking for a reason to be pissed off?

[OakIsBetterTho]

Why wouldn't you ask him to pass you the other piece? He sounds like a weirdo tho.

[Thistlebelle]

Use your words.

If you want something ask for it.

[Sirzy]

“Where’s my cake?” Would have been a better response than getting angry surely?

[DietCokeGirrrrrl]

Life is too short to be pissed off about something SO TINY. Why didn't you just ask for your bit, or take it from the plate?

[pinkdelight]

Why didn't you take it? Don't you communicate? How bizarre.

[Lovesagin]

I couldn't get even slightly worked up about this.

[purplelass]

I'd have just said 'gonna share that?' rather than letting it get to me.

Don't really understand why you got annoyed at all to be honest...

[isseywithcats]

i wouldnt even have asked if he brought two pieces of cake in i would have just grabbed one off the plate and said ooh ta very much, but then my Oh would have asked me if i wanted a piece of cake before he got some anyway

[WhatToDoAboutThis2017]

Why would you just sit there watching and getting more and more pissed off?

Surely you’d just ask for your bit At least that’s what I’d do if it was me and my DH.

[GrannyGrissle]

Do you only own one plate OP? Dinnertime must be tiresome.

[WunWegWunDarWun]

No I wouldn't be the slightest bit pissed off because of just have taken my piece. What an odd thing to stew over.

[Namethecat]

Lol no own plenty of plates. Guess it was just me having a ' moment ' all ok now ( with cake inside me !)

[APontypandyPioneer]

Now, if he ate both pieces of cake I would say you've every right to be mad.

He didn't he just put them on one plate, not sure what the issue is. Either way, communication is important. It's good to talk as the saying goes.

IMO YABU.

[Originalfoogirl]

If you wanted the cake, take the cake. I'd be amazed that you were pissed off too. How long did it take him to eat the cake? Can't have been more than a few minutes. What a bizzare thing to be annoyed about.

[falsepriest]

Slow day on AIBU isn't it...

[user1495390685]

I do that to save on the washing up! Never knew it would annoy the other person

[TheFirstMrsDV]

What?

[italiancortado]

You are pissed off because he ate his piece of cake before passing you yours? Surely that was literally seconds, a minute tops? Unless his slice of cake was the size of your house!

I swear some people must be fucking miserable all day long. What an existence.

[battenbergbutterfly]

Why have you really laughed out loud at the type of cake?

[Pseudousername]

A trending AIBU with a leading title... was expecting much, much more from this thread.

[MrsExpo]

That's so not a problem I can't even be bothered to reply ......


......oh ..... hang on ......

[Trinity66]

Yeah, why didn't you just take it?