Hi name changed in case I'm outed.
I have been happily with my dh for 12 years now and have a dd together. I was fairly content with the exception of the amount of sex/intimacy etc but love my dh so thought I had moved past it. My dh is a great guy and always treats me with love and respect, he is a good dad and he works hard. However, since April, I have been having feelings and fantasies about another man. I've known this man for 10 years and whilst I always thought he was 'fit' I didn't have these feelings I have now. He is similar 2 my dh but we have loads in common and he sticks up for me even against his g/f who then gets abusive 2 him 4 sticking up 4 me, whereas my dh doesnt and expects me to just ignore things. I don't know wtf is wrong with me. I would never cheat on my dh or even persue this other man but I can't stop thinking about him. The real kicker here is that he is dh best mate so its not as if I can even just stay away from him. I swear my dh knows although he's never sed anything. I need a good slap.
How can I stop thinking (and dreaming) about this guy?
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To think there is something very wrong with me?
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Idobelieveinfairies2018 · 22/02/2018 10:45
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