ExH and I split last year. We're still married but he lives with his parents and I'm still in the rented house with our DD, whose nearly 3.
DD has a number of medical conditions and has a number of appointments. At least 2 a month but sometimes more often. ExH doesn't drive but I do. He mostly gets to the appointments off his own back and if it's his contact day he takes DD on the bus with him and I will drive to meet him/them there. On my contact days he gets the bus and DD comes with me in the car.
Apart from one particular centre which we need to go to once a month. It's not on a public transport route so it would take either a train and 2 buses or 3 buses to get to, all different companies run the buses so it's expensive for ExH to get there. Up to now I've been saving him money and taking him with me in the car, this was partially so that when DDs older she knows I've tried to be reasonable.
But I'm starting to resent taking him. After the appointment I can't just pop to the supermarket or to the gym/soft play on the way home as I need to get ExH home.
He had the chance to learn to drive when we were together but kept putting off hoping me/his dad would take him out without him having been with an instructor first.
These appointments only require one parent to be there and are usually during ExHs contact time, but I like to be at every appointment so I'd still be taking her in the car or meeting him there anyway.
So WIBU to stop taking him? Or do I need to suck it up for the sake of DD and carry on taking him?
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To stop taking ExH to DDs appointments?
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MrsSaxobeat · 22/02/2018 09:52
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