I've posted on this before but things have moved on.
DP had a job paying £80K a year. I renovate houses for a living but my income is sporadic.
We found an unmortgatgable wreck to renovate. Agreed that I would buy it and pay for the renovations and once done he would get a mortgage and pay me back his half (£250k). It was supposed to be our long term home.
We put the house in our joint names as it would make it easier to get a mortgage later.
He was unexpectedly made redundant half way through the renovation. We agreed he would look for a new job so that he could pay me back (I planned to use the money to buy and renovate my next project.)
He recently announced, without any consultation, that he is going to play poker full time but will pay me interest on the £250k. His unilateral decision means that although my money is safe, I can't get access to my capital unless we sell the house.
He's always played poker but only as a hobby. When I asked what he would do if I gave him an ultimatum poker or me; he refused to answer the question.
I've asked him to move out (and he's agreed) and we've signed the papers to put the house into my sole name. I'm going to sell it and get access to my money.
I think the breach of trust is so great that there is no future for our relationship. AIBU?
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Not to trust DP with money any more
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Ultrasonica · 19/02/2018 16:40
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