Recently I saw a ring. I've never fallen in love with a piece of jewellery before, but wow, I adored it. I may have walked past the jewellers window a few times over the next few weeks (occasionally stealing the odd wistful glance), and one time I noticed it was 20% off. Amazing!
Now, I'm a fairly "shit, or get off the pot" kind of person but my boyfriend, well, isn't. We moved in together last year and it's all been going well, and even before that we'd discussed marriage. I have no doubt that he's the one.
I love this ring, and I just know I'd never be able to find any other as gorgeous and as 'me', although obviously it's the thought and gesture behind it which matters most. I've talked about it with my boyfriend, and his view was "whatever you want to do".
WIBU to buy the ring, and then our options are:
a) It stays in a drawer somewhere until he's ready to pop the question (I really don't mind if that's months or years away)
b) He might get scared by what I did, in which case I'd be more than happy to wear it on my right hand as 'just a ring' (it's not your stereotypical engagement ring)
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moofeatures · 19/02/2018 12:53
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