I want to know if I abu about these things. Dh and I have two dc, we visit in-laws regularly (they ask us to). When we are there these are the sort of things that happen.
Dh ignores any bad behaviour in the dc, if they're getting boisterous or whatever he just leaves me to sort them out like the default parent.
He ignores me when I speak to him or ridicules me.
For example the other day he was saying he felt really unwell, feverish etc. I suggested he take some paracetamol and he told me I was a paracetamol addict and that he didn't take tablets unless he really needed to.
His mum then gave me some lemsips to take home for him, he asked me to make one up for him there and then and his mum said she'd do it, he said no because his mum does enough for him and. I should do it.
He lets his mum run around after him like a two year old, she cooks a meal for everyone, then is left to clear up after everyone. I help by clearing plates, wiping sides but dh just goes and sits down.
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AIBU?
To not want to go to inlaws anymore because of dh?
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Sleepyduvetday · 19/02/2018 12:49
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