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Sodamntiredasalways Mon 19-Feb-18 00:02:47

I get one lie in a week, a Sunday. The rest of the week I'm up for work or training (5:30/6am) and DH is still in bed. Apart from Saturday when we train together. DH has developed this habit of wanting sex at 6am on a Sunday morning. The sun wakes him up .... but apparently it doesn't Monday to Friday hmmAIBU to want to scream at him to bugger off and let me sleep or should I appreciate the affection? He will persist every 15 minutes until I finally wake up and begrudgingly agree. So I can't pretend to be asleep. (This is lighthearted, I love him and we have a great physical relationship - I just was one lie in a week) thoughts ?

GetsPostByOwl Mon 19-Feb-18 00:18:27

Mine loves morning sex. I don't. Smelly breath, sweaty from sleeping, not as..... fresh as one would want to be. It's gross.
At night however, I'll be fresh out of the bath, raring to go and..... Nothing. Nada. Zilch. He won't take the hint.

Sodding men!

Fluffyears Mon 19-Feb-18 00:19:28

He will persist every 15 minutes until I finally wake up and begrudgingly agree you know that is rape?

MotherforkingShirtballs Mon 19-Feb-18 00:20:59

I hate early morning sex, DH has long since learned that any attempts will be met with a brusque "bugger off" for the same reasons given by Owl.

iceycage Mon 19-Feb-18 00:21:17

If you don't want to have sex, you don't have sex. It's that simple.

I can't imagine it's not obvious to your DH that you aren't keen. If it were me he'd have been kicked in the balls many many many times.

LittlePaintBox Mon 19-Feb-18 00:40:03

Tell him you don't want it early morning on a Sunday. He may not yet have picked that up.

I realise we're all meant to be revved up and raring to go all the time nowadays, but you have other needs, one of which is sleep.

And yes, pestering for sex is pestering for sex, whether it's the office creep or your DH.

GnotherGnu Mon 19-Feb-18 00:43:58

Are you in the UK? There's no sun round here till after 7 at the moment.

Tell him that you do not want to be woken up before 8 on Sunday, remind him of that on Saturday night, and tell him that if dares to wake you up for sex he'll have to go without for at least a week.

zzzzz Mon 19-Feb-18 00:55:05

He will persist every 15 minutes until I finally wake up and begrudgingly agree you know that is rape?

I think the fact she agrees means it isn’t, unless consent now has to be perky to be real?

DannyLaRuesBestFrock Mon 19-Feb-18 00:58:07

I don't think I could have sex with someone I knew was only doing it to appease me.

ReanimatedSGB Mon 19-Feb-18 01:01:37

Well, yeah, consent has to be enthusiastic, not 'just pull my nightie down when you've finished.' And if OP's said no, still asleep, go away, and his dick is still being shoved at her, then that is rape.

zzzzz Mon 19-Feb-18 01:02:48

Not if she agrees. It’s kind of key to the whole “consent” thing.

UnrelentingFruitScoffer Mon 19-Feb-18 01:06:24

@Fluffyears - No it is not. And you know that. What’s your agenda here ? Spread a bit of hatred ?

Ivebeenaroundtheblock Mon 19-Feb-18 01:10:42

Littlepaintbox has it spot on.
Saturday night synopsis (dare not wake me on Sunday am before 8)
and let him know being a sex pest is not sexy and will result in no sexy time until next Sunday PAST 8.

PositivelyPERF Mon 19-Feb-18 01:15:29

That would seriously fuck me off! No pun intended. Buy a blackout blind and have it put up while he’s out. Any man would be seeing the fucking light alright if he tried to wake me for sex at 6am. Priorities. 😴

AjasLipstick Mon 19-Feb-18 01:19:51

Zzz no because she's being COERCED into agreeing.

Haven't you ever read any articles other than those which appear in the Daily Mail?

LemonysSnicket Mon 19-Feb-18 01:22:29

Anything before 9.30 am on a Sunday morning is illegal here.

Butterfly1066 Mon 19-Feb-18 01:22:47

It might be irratating but rape it isn't

LemonysSnicket Mon 19-Feb-18 01:23:37

I read an article once saying men are horniest on a morning and women in mid afternoon. I agree with it.
On a night I’m tired, in the morning we smell... afternoon delight anyone?

timeisnotaline Mon 19-Feb-18 01:38:54

I don’t understand morning sex - does everyone jump up and brush their teeth first? But that’s not relevant here as if I loved morning Sex but I got one lie in a week and my dp thought to wake me for sex I would explain in one syllable words that there might never be sex again. I like lie ins smile

taylorj86 Mon 19-Feb-18 02:16:26

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swanmills Mon 19-Feb-18 02:21:08

Taylorj86 your husband has sex with you while he thinks you're asleep? Is this serious or are you being deliberately provocative ?

snakeshun Mon 19-Feb-18 02:29:05

He's a sex pest. I'd tell him to fuck off and never wake me again.

Time40 Mon 19-Feb-18 02:37:22

I don’t understand morning sex - does everyone jump up and brush their teeth first?

Yes. And have a pee.

taylorj86 Mon 19-Feb-18 02:41:28

swanmills what are you doing here? my sex life is none of your business, I haven't asked about yours so please be respectful.

swanmills Mon 19-Feb-18 02:43:49

Taylor um.... i am responding to your post. Which is a fairly common theme amongst mumsnet. Post/read/respond and the likes.

Please don't talk to me about being " respectful" when you literally just described rape which is obviously a hugely sensitive subject.

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