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AIBU?

To think Mary Berry needs to get with the times?

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WhineandDine1 · 14/02/2018 22:05

Ok maybe I am being a bit unreasonable, I know she's 82. But I couldn't help but find myself a little irked yesterday on the one show when asked what a good Valentine's Day meal would be and she said "well all men love a bit of steak don't they." So Valentine's Day is a day for women to cook for the man??

My 89 year old grandmother was watching as well and actually commented before I did saying "well that doesn't mean I would like steak!!" Which made me feel a little better about perhaps being overly judgemental of a much older generation. But really Mary, not sure why the focus is on what darling husband/boyfriend would want

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Trills · 14/02/2018 22:09

She's a cook. That's her job.

If a TV presenter asks her a question about a meal, she is of course going to assume that the question is about her cooking.

Maccapacca88 · 14/02/2018 22:11

YABVVVU. Mary Berry is perfect and can do no wrong. You heathen you!

WhineandDine1 · 14/02/2018 22:11

hmm I'm still unsure as to why a Valentine's Day meal has to cater only to what the man would like? If you asked a chef friend of yours what a good meal would be and they said "well what's husband/boyfriend's favourite food? Cook that." Would you not think "well what about what I like and want to eat?"

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HotCrossBunFight · 14/02/2018 22:11

I suppose because Valentine's Day (if you're into it - I'm not) is about doing something special for the one you love and for some people that might mean cooking them their favourite meal. Mary's a heterosexual woman so would likely be cooking for a man if she wanted to make a meal to show her affection so would be thinking of what men would like.

WhineandDine1 · 14/02/2018 22:12

Macca i usually love her too! But think she needs to understand a woman isn't always having to cater to her husband's wants

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OfaFrenchmind2 · 14/02/2018 22:15

She is 82, a cook, and her whole image is the grand motherly lady. A little quaint. I don't think she needs to change anything to conform with the current dogma (even if it is one I feel closer too)
She is not hurting anyone, should we all be identical bots?

goose1964 · 14/02/2018 22:15

I find her very annoying, I'm a Nigel Slater type cook so hate being told I must cook it her way. DH and I shared tonight's cooking ,I chopped the veg ,( apart from evil onions) and DH cooked creole prawns with mixed rice, ice cream for pud

VikingVolva · 14/02/2018 22:19

She's a female heterosexual cook. And she brings her life to her show.

There are plenty of male cooks with telly programmes if you want to see it from the other side.

Trills · 14/02/2018 22:19

What HotCrossBun said - Valentine's is about doing something nice for another person.

In Mary's case, this would be her husband.

RosaRosaRose · 14/02/2018 22:23

I didn't see the programme but ' all men like...' is an assumption I can't agree with and I do find her cooking shows aimed at a very small demographic. One she is part of, and fair play if you're fine with that. I no longer watch, though.

SilverySurfer · 14/02/2018 22:25

I could cope with that (primarily because I don't have a man in my life) and any steak I cook will be for myself.

However, the one thing for which I can't forgive her is recommending victoria sponges be made with Stork margarine instead of butter. I only tried it once and it was so gross I binned it after taking one bite. Shame on you Mary Berry.

AdaColeman · 14/02/2018 22:26

On the "What's for Valentine dinner" thread almost everyone seems to be having steak, so she's not far wrong.
Steak is an easy quick treat, so it's just what's needed tonight.

AnnaMagnani · 14/02/2018 22:28

She is very very annoying. My DM in her 70s can't stand her as she remembers her from first time around making v boring meals and lecturing people women about how to make nice meals for their husbands.

She gives my DM the rage.

ShortandAnnoying · 14/02/2018 22:29

Mary Berry was quite ahead of her time in being a working mother and now she's a working grandmother. I bet she gets her husband to cook her something sometimes too.

CommunistLegoBloc · 14/02/2018 22:29

That woman is as hard as nails.

She’s said some pretty dodgy stuff about women having careers (the fucking irony!) too...

magimedi · 14/02/2018 22:32

She is the image of my (late) MIl................'nuff said.

Helendee · 14/02/2018 22:33

That's probably what she grew up with given her age and class.

It's harmless really isn't it?

MincemeatTart · 14/02/2018 22:34

I’m sure she understand full well that women can have successful careers! I also think she’s wise enough to know many women enjoy cooking a lovely meal for their husbands...and that many women like beautiful bouquets or jewellery. That doesn’t stop,men and women being equal but gives everyone pleasure. Is that so awful?

RoseWhiteTips · 14/02/2018 22:34

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Maybe she meant the couple would eat steak in a - you know... radical idea coming up - restaurant?

Weebo · 14/02/2018 22:35

I'll never quite forgive her for having words about my belovéd Delia.

As far as I'm concerned Mary Berry can go scratch.

WhineandDine1 · 14/02/2018 22:37

Rosewithtips she didn't refer to a "couple", just the man. And she was asked what's good to cook for Valentine's Day so no, I don't think she was referring to a restaurant.

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BarbaraofSevillle · 14/02/2018 22:39

She also recommends margarine for cakes and witters on about how it is necessary to precisely weigh everything.

Well seeing as there are a million different recipes on the internet for cake, and they all produce cake, I can't see how that is true.

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Notcontent · 14/02/2018 22:46

she recommends margarine?!?! seriously?

Wdigin2this · 14/02/2018 22:49

OFFS!!!!!!!!!

paddlingwhenIshouldbeworking · 14/02/2018 22:51

Well I can't be arsed with Valentines Day at all but as a heterosexual feminist, if I was a cook so was specifically being asked what I would cook, I'd say I'd be cooking something he liked. If I'm cooking specifically for someone I love, I generally go for something the person really likes and she was being asked a generic, inane question so gave a generic inane answer.

If my husband was asked (as he's actually a better cook), he probably say he was cooking seafood linguine and if he was being an arse he probably add some stupid comment.

Much as I love to analyse, don't think I can get worked up about this one!

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