Name change for this one!
I wrapped my DNieces birthday gifts and gave them to my mum to pass on (im on holiday so wont see DN and they live around 3 hours away). Given in plenty of time for DM to take them down as she is going anyway on 21st. Anyway it was peppa pig toys wrapped in pink princess paper with a pink organza ribbon round them. then in a plain pink hallmark gift bag, the £2.50 nice thick ones (this is relevant).
So last week DM comes round and hands me my gift bag back. She felt it was "too nice" for DN as DS will just throw it away. So shes put it in a bag with lions and animals on from poundland. I didn't really know what to say and, as it sounded petty, left it. However it bugged me all week. its MY choice what bag my gifts go in. And presentation is important to me. I dont want a poundland lion bag, I wanted my bag.
So when I saw her I explained I didn't want the lion bag. She was extremely apologetic and repeatedly said she shouldnt meddle or get involved. She actually dragged it on longer than she should and almost used it for sympathy and I found myself repeatedly saying "it's ok, dont worry, not a problem". Anyway she just text me a photo, with my gift inside a pink minnie mouse bag. Still not what i would have chosen, but better than the cheap looking lion bag. I thanked her, then noticed she has taken the ribbons off the fucking gifts!!! They are plonked inside, no longer ribboned together.
I know how pedantic and pathetic this seems, but I chose a gift for DN, went to a lot of effort ribboning wrapping and putting them in a bag. She has totally changed the bag and taken my ribbons off the gifts. This may be how she sends HER gifts but not how I send mine. I am fuming. I just text back asking why she removed the ribbon and shes now ignoring me.
For the record we get on great and she does interfere and think she knows everything but I've never known her go so far as to actually change peoples gifts or wrapping before. Then again maybe its something she always does and I've just never noticed. She generally passes gifts between me and my DS for ease, but in future I think I may just have to pay to send them in the post.
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Mymumsaknob · 14/02/2018 18:11
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