Offered to help out a fellow mum as a favour (take her DD out for the morning with my DD, and drop her home with her mum so I could go back home and get some work done). Mum knew this - I told her times and everything over the phone yesterday. (I played down how much it would disrupt my schedule (think approx 1hr's drive vs 15mins) because I didn't want her to feel guilty).
Mum sent me a text at almost midnight to say she forgot to tell me she has a hospital appointment tomorrow and that I can leave her DD at home to wait for her until she gets back (no mention of what time the appointment is/finishes).
Her DD is 9yo and I am not comfortable doing this. FWIW, my DD is the same age, and I would never ask a parent to drop her at home to be there by herself, especially with no indication of when I expect to be back.
I'd already taken her DD out yesterday and had offered to take her to morning and evening activities for rest of the week, but do need the time in between to work (my DD has other play dates planned for those gaps precisely for this reason, and I can't very well drop off an unknown child to those other parents).
I have a sneaking suspicion I'm going to have to bring her DD back home with me and have her for the whole day, which makes me concerned about Thur and Fri as well.
Whatever happens, I'll manage, but AIBU to now wish I hadn't offered in the first place?
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WTAFDNGDGU · 14/02/2018 00:14
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