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To ask you to tell me it's going to be ok?

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GoldenOrb Tue 13-Feb-18 14:03:02

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SillyLittleBiscuit Tue 13-Feb-18 14:30:56

It will absolutely be ok flowers

JustKeepDancing Tue 13-Feb-18 14:52:25

It will be ok. It's hard and horrible, but it will be ok flowers

GrannyGrissle Tue 13-Feb-18 14:53:57

But after the mega shitball of stress....Freedom!!! Always focus on how things will be 6 months from now. Write it down if it helps you focus on future aims as it's hard view an end to the stress. flowers

CanIhavedessertfirst Tue 13-Feb-18 14:59:16

It really will be ok! I got divorced 2 years ago and can honestly say that when the decree absolute is in your hands, you will cry the happiest tears of your life!

GoldenOrb Tue 13-Feb-18 17:04:48

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Thesmallthings Tue 13-Feb-18 17:09:10

It's competely normal to feel like this nearing the end.

Your body and mind has been working ober time to get you through the worst and now the end is near your mind get process everything it's gone through which is mentally and physically draining.

Feel what your feeling and focus on the positives in the furture to look forward to.

GoldenOrb Tue 13-Feb-18 18:44:02

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Thesmallthings Tue 13-Feb-18 19:06:04

You will cope my lovely. Youv coped so far havnt You? You will continue to cope.

The fact that your aware that depression could happen means that your self awared enough to get help if it does.. and then you'll get through that.

GoldenOrb Tue 13-Feb-18 20:32:34

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MagicFajita Tue 13-Feb-18 20:39:02

You're over the worst of it op. It will work out just fine.

I had a stalling exh too and by the time I recieved my decree absolute I felt so indifferent due to the exhaustion that I just filed the document away and carried on with my day. A couple of flimsy bits of stapled , stamped paper feels a bit of an anticlimax after all of that stressy crapsmile

Keep going and give yourself a pat on the back for making it this farflowers

AmysTiara Tue 13-Feb-18 20:41:35

It will be better than ok . Im going through the same thing and i tell myself constantly its all going to be fine. flowers

Cupoteap Tue 13-Feb-18 20:54:27

Sounds like me a year ago - getting that piece of paper meant and still means, so much. You CAN do this, it is worth it. Just that final bit of the journey x

GoldenOrb Tue 13-Feb-18 20:54:43

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EmiliaAirheart Tue 13-Feb-18 21:17:38

GoldenOrb, you are brave and strong and those traits will help you through the tough bits to come. Please let yourself feel things if that would relieve some pressure, because you absolutely can cope flowers

GoldenOrb Mon 19-Feb-18 10:30:13

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Cupoteap Mon 19-Feb-18 15:29:14

It will, I had to leave the house so I understand. You really are getting closer every day. Just keep swimming!

GoldenOrb Sun 25-Feb-18 17:13:42

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Therunecaster Sun 25-Feb-18 17:28:33

Hi there. Just got my absolute after a bitter 26 month divorce battle. It will be will be ok x

GoldenOrb Sun 25-Feb-18 18:28:33

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Viviennemary Sun 25-Feb-18 18:34:09

Sorry you are feeling like this. Are you regretting the whole split up or is it all the upheaval of finding somewhere new to live. Most people I know who have got divorced are glad they did. But at the time it can be horrendous. If that's any help.

GoldenOrb Sun 25-Feb-18 18:43:57

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AdrasteiaAthena Thu 01-Mar-18 15:37:14

I'm sorry you are feeling like this. I'm in the same process but just abit behind you I believe. I just can't wait for it all to be over, it's never fun to have a battle every step of the way. Hang in there OP!

GoldenOrb Thu 01-Mar-18 17:10:03

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