So it's more of a wwyd actually. My way or dh's?
I've posted about this before.
Ds goes to a very very small and remote preschool. We aren't in the UK.
Due to its small size kid's from the infant toddler program sometimes come over to ds' class when it's not got many kids in. (This is relevant.)
It's come to my attention that the preschool teacher has been taking the class out on trips to the shop or cafe.
I have two issues with this, we're never told beforehand. I did sign an annual permission slip for excursions (now kicking myself) but I assumed we'd be told prior to each trip. In local licensing rules it states guardians must be informed prior to a trip so I think even though we signed permission we should still be told beforehand when and where they're going.
My second issue is that these trips involve a 15 minute walk along a main road (30mph) with no pavement. She 9 times out of 10 goes alone. Last time she had a 2 year old she was carrying and was trusting 5 other kids (one 2.5 the others all 4 years) to walk hand in hand. I think this is insanity. There needs to be at least two adults.
I didn't send him last week while I worked out what to do.
We live in a very small and tight knit community. The teacher is very popular and actually very good friends with three of the other children's parents. It's not quite as simple as just making a complaint to management. (Incidentally, I'm holding management of the preschool responsible for the lack of training she's given rather than her.)
Our issue is, I think we should approach her and tell her we don't want our child going on trips without our prior permission and without two people walking with them.
Dh wants to go to the manager. I feel like this will get her back up and make her dislike us. But I see his point that it's a policy issue and should be taken up higher up in the school. I just don't want her to be blindsided and upset at it coming from someone else when she's kind of a friend.
I'm an outsider here, everyone else has lived here since birth and I've struggled to fit in over the last few years I've lived here. I also suffer hugely from social anxiety so am aware I'm overthinking it hugely and tying myself in knots so no biscuits please .
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kevinkeeganlovesme · 12/02/2018 12:18
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