My fiancé and I are planning to get married next year. Second wedding for me, first for him. I would like a small wedding, immediate family only. He would like a few more guests. Fine, the dilema is bridesmaids.
I have a 19 year old daughter. I would like her to walk me down the isle. No other bridesmaids. But then he said his daughter should be included (14 year old), which I understand. Then if we were having two bridesmaids my neice (4 years old) also would expect to be included. So that means three bridesmaids in a very small wedding! 25 guests only, is this too much? How can I include everyone? Or not, without anyone being offended?
Do something unconventional. Have his daughter walk him down the aisle, and your daughter walks you to join him. Then his daughter can stand beside him where a best man would normally stand, and your daughter takes the position the maid of honour would. I think it's a great solution.
Hmm..reading would be good, didn’t think of that. My daughter wouldn’t really be bridesmaid but walk me down the isle. Neice is only 4 years old and would love to be part of the wedding, just didn’t want dsd to feel left out.