Sorry if this has been done to death but I am at my wits end and honestly could do with some advice
Some back story. Been married to DH 12 years & have 3DCs but he's never done his share of the housework.
He had some time off last year and I made it clear that I had had enough and he had to step up with the chores.
Since then (with some training) he had been much better - washing, drying, Ironing (his own clothes), hoovering, some cooking, more running about after the kids.
Fast forward, I have had a couple of months at home again and could feel myself getting irritated that I was doing all of the jobs again so instead of sniping away about it (I have a tendency to do this I'll admit), I thought it best to talk it through.
So this am, I say 'I'm starting to get irritated that you're doing nothing around the house, please do more' and he offers that while I take DD swimming he would make a contribution to the chores.
I come home and he has fixed a fence panel (not handy at all, so I was surprised and pleased) started making lunch & done some washing and drying.
I put the swimming stuff in the machine and find...
•DS's synthetic School Jumper has been tumble dried and is half the size, • as is DD's ballet leotard and
• my Skinny Jeans are ruined (Lycra mix & now saggy).
We've gone over a hundred times what can and can't go in the drier. I can't believe he's ruined these clothes!!
He's like 'calm down it's no biggie, I'll buy more' but that would cost £68!! And we share finances so that isn't fair at all!
It's not the first time this has happened but he's been better for ages. I honestly feel like killing him right now.
I'm so careful to look after everyone's things.
How can I trust him to help with the jobs when he seems to deliberately fuck them up so I don't ask him again?
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Incandescent with RAGE - tumble drier related
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goingslightlycrazy · 11/02/2018 17:07
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