I've name change for this as alongside other posts I've made this could be outing.
I am increasingly getting worried about my 6 year old DS, the things that I always put down as his "funny things" he does don't seem much like his friends and classmates and I worry something more is going on.
He doesn't really play with toys, he is obsessive about a particular item at a time whether it is one Xmas present, or a recent happy meal toy etc. that will be his favourite for a few weeks then it moves on but he never plays imaginative games. His main form of play is wrestling, play fighting and physical play in the garden at the park, he doesn't seem to be able to sit still to play or craft or do homework. He hates loud noises, like school discos, loud play centres etc. so I deliberatly take him to quieter ones to avoid this. He will obsessively play a game and if he goes wrong gets very angry with himself, he sometimes slaps his own face .
I have a younger DC who he will sometimes play with but largely he wants to wrestle and despite it starting gentle and playful I always have to break it up. School have no concerns with him and just say he is one of the quieter ones but I worry he holds it in at school as he comes out grumpy and angry most days and is very snappy with me.
An incident happened the other day where we went to a soft play, they suddenly played a very loud "happy birthday" song and he ran to me and cried because it scared him so much.
I'm just really anxious about having our lives torn to shreds through any assesment, me and the DCs father are seperated and I am sure this will be painted as a contributing factor that he is just playing up but really looking back he has been like this for a really long time but only recently has it seemed to start disrupting his happiness.
Please help, is this normal 6yo behaviour??
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namechange4444 · 11/02/2018 08:22
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