Ok, I may be being touchy as emotions are a little all over the place at the moment.
Last year my husband was diagnosed with cancer, it was caught very early, thank god. He had surgery and didn't need chemo or radiotherapy, all his follow up have come back clear and healthy. Obviously I was there for all the appointments, looked after him post surgery , took the financial load... and generally think I was pretty fcking supportive.
Fast forward to this year, I have been diagnosed with a BRCA genetic mutation and have just been given a date for BSO surgery and going through pre-appointments to have a double mastectomy with reconstruction. So far my husband has attended no appointments with me, and the only comments and questions he's made regarding my upcoming surgery dates amount to "well as long as it's not X date as I've got a work thing".
I tried to start a conversation to him this morning regarding my HRT options and got "I don't know ask your doctor.", which given he spent over an hour last night discussing the injury and recovery of one of his friends following a sports accident, was pretty bloody infuriating.
Am I being over touchy here, or is he being a cnt?
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To expect my husband to actually give a sh*t?
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RainbowMoonbeam · 09/02/2018 11:36
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