Hi, please help. Been in a relationship for nearly 18 months. We’ve had our ups and downs as with every relationship. We’re both married however before we got together before everyone shouts we both were already in the process of leaving our OH’s. I’m nearly 52 she’s coming up to 50. Anyway 18 months on I’m getting a divorce and she’s not even started? I’ve not met yet children and she’s still living with her children with no end in sight. Am wasting my time should I move on? Please help very confused as I love her dearly.
For everyone saying 'she's not going to abandon her kids' of course she isn't, but perhaps the OP means that as they haven't met the kids yet and she lives with them, it makes life a bit difficult (rather than an expectation of abandonment!!) OP can't you at least meet the kids, at least then there is some progress even if she hasn't initiated the divorce yet?