I'm in an unhappy marriage, nothing terrible just emotionally empty. I've pushed it to the back of my mind for years as my children mean the world to me and I don't want to hurt them. There's no arguments, it's all ticking along ok...children haven't really noticed the tension between dh and me.
I've suddenly decided this is my life too and I only get one. I deserve happiness too even if it messes with the children's minds. Obviously I would do absolutely everything to help them though it but we all hear stories of children who struggle so much when their parents split.
AIBU to think I should think about my happiness and not just accept that I will never feel loved again? Or do I just accept that the children come first.
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to think I shouldn't carry on living like this to avoid messing up the children's minds
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Aloneandjustsad · 08/02/2018 23:14
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