Hi all, i've posted about my ex before but have since changed my name on here.
to try and cut a long story short, my ex was very abusive throughout our relationship. calling me fat, whale, nigga (i'm mixed race) saggy.. the list could go on. we have now separated and i'm so much happier. my issue is this. we arranged that he would see our DD (5 months) twice a week at his mothers but since then i've received another barrage of abuse including him calling me a fat nigga in front of our daughter again. i've now said that if he wants contact with her he will have to take me to court as i don't want that around my 1/4 black baby!!! he's saying i'm being immature and not thinking about our daughter that i'm just upset about what he's said and using her as a weapon. i don't think i am. so my question is AIBU to tell him he can't see our daughter and the only way he'll be able to is if he won a court case to do so?
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forevertired2 · 08/02/2018 16:41
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