I have an old uni friend who lives in another city who calls me around once a week for a chat. We've known each other a long time and there was a time when I enjoyed her company, but the issue now is that she talks/rants non stop about everything that's bothering her and I can hardly get a word in edgeways! Sometimes she won't even ask how I am or what I have been up to at all during the entire call. I feel like she treats me as her counsellor, but the relationship has been like this for so long I don't know how to change it.
It's been particularly difficult since DD was born 7 months ago because I no longer have the mental energy to listen, so I make excuses and avoid her calls. I barely have any time or space for myself as it is, so I don't want to spend an hour a week listening to somebody ranting.
I don't feel like I can avoid her completely as I might soon be moving to her town, plus she has asked me to be maid of honour at her wedding, which is another thing i feel awkward about. WWYD?
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Yawnyprawn · 08/02/2018 12:03
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