Our 19yo has moved out of a flat and is going travelling for a year. We took her cat in (temporarily) to help her but now it seems she is moving home after travelling to save money so she is planning to leave the cat here permanently. Trouble is, we already have an older female cat (12) and the new cat (male) is young. The two don't get along and are constantly fighting. Old cat is anxious and stressed and spends most of the time hiding from young cat. Young cat (sweet as he is) wants to play and takes a swipe at old cat every time they pass which turns into a scrap. I am totally fed up because it is destroying the carpets, furniture and plants. We cannot let it out because too near a main road so we have a lovely smelly litter tray as a permanent fixture along with the stress of trying not to let the cat out whenever anyone opens a door!. DH trying to run a business from home and it's causing all sorts of problems. Do feel sorry for the cat because he is just not suited to this environment and would be better with other younger cats and maybe somewhere with a garden he could play in. Because he used to get out at the flat, he constantly wants out now but my worry is he will get killed by a car. I have suggested to DD that we find a suitable home for him but she is having none of it and every time we try to broach the subject it ends up in an argument with her storming out! AIBU to want to re-home the cat?
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