DP and I have limited family and the ones we do have are stressful, controlling and just generally not very nice people.
As a result of this, we've decided to get married abroad on our own and not invite anyone and potentially just have a small get together upon our return.
My best friend lives abroad (but thousands of miles from where we're getting married) and honestly I'd love for her to be there but at the same time I know if we invited her I'd want to spend more time with her and then the honeymoon wouldn't really be about DP.
AIBU to be worried about upsetting her and how do I minimise that upset? I know it sounds hypocritical but I think I'd be pretty upset if I wasn't invited to hers (not that I'd tell her of course!).
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To worry about upsetting my friend re our wedding?
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SarahH12 · 07/02/2018 11:50
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