I am utterly defeated by my 4 year old and I just do not know what the fuck to do anymore.
Every morning he fights me getting dressed. Every morning he refuses to walk into nursery, screams the whole way. Every morning staff have to remove him from me like a limpet so I can go to work. Every morning within 5 mins of me leaving he is happily eating his breakfast and love the rest of his day.
I am EXHAUSTED. We have tried reward charts, he’s not interested. He is totally capable of dressing himself but just WONT. I let him chose his clothes - no difference. I’ve tried setting a timer for when we’re getting in the car, no difference. The other day I took him to nursery in his vest and fucking pants.
I can’t carry him anymore - he’s too heavy, and it makes NO DIFFERENCE he still has a massive tantrum when it comes time to leave.
He starts school in September and I am just dreading it. He has been like this the WHOLE time he’s been at nursery, since 2.5.
He wants to stay at home with me. Lovely. Unfortunately I have to go to work.
PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME IT GETS BETTER BECAUSE I JUST CANNOT DO THIS ANY MORE ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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Rinoachicken · 07/02/2018 08:26
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