Ok, I'll start with a disclaimer, I'm 7 months pregnant, and therefore may be being unreasonable, although I am genuinely quite upset and not sure if others would be too.
It's also regrettably a mil one.
Mil calls twice a week to speak to my 1 year old, she facetimes and DD is often not really aware what's going on, dh takes the calls so it's not something I'm really involved in and if he's happy to do it then it's fine by me
This evening she has called, and during her chat the conversation goes along the lines of:
Mil: oh I hear her saying mumma alot, have you deciphered what that means, or is it nothing?
Dh: well no she mean namechangeuser, she can also say bye bye.
Mil: oh right...well I'll decipher anything she says as Nana anyway.
It's really upset me. Me and mil are not close. I've known her for 11 years and she has never warmed to me, and treats me like a stranger most of the time.
She's never once asked me throughout my entire pregnancy if I'm doing ok. She never says anything about me doing a good job with DD, it's like I don't exist. DD started to sleep through the night recently and her response was "oh well don't hold your breath".
I don't have a close relationship with my own mum which mil is well aware of.
Aibu to be upset by her comments? It feels as though she has taken away or at the very least, completely diminished DD first word being mumma, and makes me feel so unimportant as a part of the family
I'm a stay at home mum, I live and breath for DD, I'm a good wife, iv never done anything that I know of to upset her. Why would you not say "oh mumma, how lovely" or something nice?
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Namechangeuser · 04/02/2018 20:22
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