AIBU? Me and my partner met 9 months ago in Manchester where he lives (I was on a training course) I live on the outskirts of SW London. On our first date he told me I was the woman he was going to marry I laughed it off and told him not unless he was willing to move where I live. It was a bit of a whirlwind romance and 3 months later we were engaged, I did make sure he knew I was serious about staying where I live and he said he was fine with it, liked it down south and was excited to move and we started looking at a few houses. Then his mum offered to buy us a house up in Manchester and he keeps trying to get me to change my mind. I work in London but if I did the same job in Manchester I would get nearly a 3rd less money than I do now and he will get the same if not more down here so while he keeps saying it’s cheaper up north we would earn less and I would have less career opportunities. The main reason that I want to stay Is my family I’m 27 and still living at home mainly so I can save up for a deposit but I do enjoy living with my parents and my sister is 10 minutes away, my dads 70 this year and my mums 66 so I want to spend as much time with them as possible. He’s 22 (nearly 23) but his mums only 41 so I don’t really think he gets it when I talk about that issue, I’m beginning to wonder if he is a little young for me 😞 I’ve asked him if it’s living near my parents that’s the problem but he says it’s not, we would be about 20 minutes away as we can’t affort to live right near them and there not the nosy type to just come around uninvited, we’ve been staying at each other’s house each other weekend for the last 6 months with parents and we all get on well so thats not an issue. Someone give me some honest opinions please.
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Smeaton ·
03/02/2018 16:07
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