To think it's my decision whether or not I give birth?

FlyingFox195 · 2018-02-01 00:44:15

Because everyone seems to think I've gone fucking mental but I've crossed the line from not caring what anyone thinks to frustration because DP especially is doing my head in I've recently found out I'm pregnant (4 positive tests). Quite quickly went into denial. No idea how far on I am or anything but DP is stressing me out way too much. I think I went into a bit of shock. For background I don't want a child. We used contraception but it's clearly not worked. It would ruin my life and we are not ready. Whether or not I'll ever want one is a different matter but right now it's a big no. However, DP feels it's his calling as a father and that I should have it for him to look after. He has said that even if I have no contact so I can get on with my life as normal he has he right to make that decision. I don't really want to give birth to a baby then lose all contact with it so he can have one - surely that's not a solution? He thinks it was meant to be and won't believe me when I say it would be a disaster. He has also not had any interest in TTC up until this morning. I have a GP appt booked to discuss the way forward but this disagreement is causing a lot of tension. I'm also very stressed and might be losing my mind a bit, sorry He's not speaking to me right now either so tonight will be fun

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Really sorry to all who took the time to post, but we're afraid we're not too sure about the OP here.